Our Approach to Family Therapy in Montclair, NJ
Our approach involves listening to every family member. We take into account each person’s perspective so we can incorporate their individual goals into a shared family process. In doing so, we shift the focus from a single issue affecting one person to the broader patterns and challenges impacting the entire family in different ways.
Depending on the family’s needs, we combine different therapeutic approaches, including:
Structural Family Therapy
This approach centers on family interactions, viewing the family as a connected system. Improving communication and promoting healthier ways of relating helps build a stronger, more supportive family dynamic.
Family Systems Therapy
Sometimes, problems can originate within the family unit. This approach emphasizes that when one person struggles, the whole family is affected. Through collaboration and understanding, family members learn how their behaviors and interactions shape the family’s overall well-being.
Attachment Theory
Attachment theory shows how early caregiver–child relationships shape the way we connect with others throughout life. In family therapy, this approach helps each member explore their attachment patterns and understand how these influence family dynamics, communication, emotional expression, and conflict.
Inter-Generational Transmission of Trauma Theory
This theory suggests that unresolved trauma from one generation can be passed down to the next, influencing patterns of behavior, emotional responses, and relationships within the family. Such patterns can impact parenting and parent–child bonds. In essence, this approach helps break the cycle of pain and foster healing and healthier connections.
Parent Coaching
Parent coaching is a strengths-based approach where you work directly with one of our therapists to improve communication and strengthen your relationship with your child. It helps you understand family dynamics and develop greater empathy for yourself and your child, fostering a more supportive connection.